The first call with an owner who is not selling
An owner who takes a call from an acquirer has usually not decided anything. They are curious, a little guarded and listening for whether you understand their business.
Lead with their company
Start with what you noticed: the service mix, the area they cover, how long they have held the licence. Specifics show the call was not random.
Leave price out of it
Valuation talk in the first conversation turns a relationship into a negotiation before either side has the facts. Ask about the team, the customers and what the owner wants the next five years to look like.
End with a small next step
A site visit, a second call with a partner or simply permission to stay in touch. Owners sell to buyers they have known for a while.